Well, if the above statements are true, you've ever wondered why only a few percent of people enjoy the fruits of success, while the majority of people gave up the journey a lot before they could taste success. If the rules and principles of success are the same and easily accessible to anyone, what prevents most of us from just following the rules and succeeding?
One of the most common reasons I've come to realize over the years why most people can not see success is that they never understand the fact that success never occurs on the first or second try.
Very rarely if this is the problem. But most of us, need a lot of effort to be successful. How much effort? I have no idea. However, those who succeed are those who "keep on trying until the time needed". Focus on the words "no matter how long". This is not a matter of the number of attempts or the number of errors. It is often necessary for us, which basically means that failure is never a choice. If you think that failure is not an option, and you are ready to do anything for your success, then you can feel success.
It's good to say "a winner never gives up".
To explain this you only need to forget your life goals or your current criteria of success. Let's take the simplest things in your life and see if you have made it through the first or second attempt or make as much effort as you need to be successful. You will realize that in most cases it will be the last.
Remember when you started running, or you tried tying the shoelace, or when you started writing the first alphabets of a new language. If you were not born with extraordinary gifts, it would take tremendous effort and an immortal spirit to accomplish one of those goals. Well, the big difference was that you did not have a positive attitude, or were tied to thought restrictions at that age. The success you achieved for relatively small goals at this age was due to numerous failures and countless unsuccessful attempts, but the essential principle you followed (possibly unknowingly) was to try until you succeeded ,
I try to keep trying, if you have not reached your goal, I call the "prize for success".
If we have understood that we have to pay the price for success and one day we would definitely reach our goal if we continue to strive, then the next question that might come to your mind is why not everyone can pay the price and succeed.
Well, trying to tie many success in your goals of today's life is a bit more complex than the goal of learning a shoelace. In addition, the environment in and around you has changed as well. This change will not help you on your journey.
It is not difficult to think for yourself and to recognize what has changed from our childhood until now. Some of these changes are as follows. These changes apply to most of us unless we have made serious attempts to overcome them.
1) On your journey from childhood, you have taken on many negative lines of thought, so that today you have less confidence in yourself and your abilities than at this age.
2) You are lucky enough to win someone who encourages you to fail at this age. You had your parents with you when you were a kid. They would also applaud you if you tie the shabbiest shoelaces as long as you make a honest attempt. How many such valuations do you receive today in your personal or professional life when you fail in a sincere attempt?
3) They have forgotten to dream and have given up the belief that you can ever reach them. This may be the most unfortunate event in your life, and this feature may take the longest to memorize you. I needed to read thousands of self-help books, hear hundreds of audio tapes from the world's most successful people, meet hundreds of positive people, countless seminars before that seed of dreaming returned. People around you must make righteous attempts company to look for them.
4) You have identified neither the goal nor the mission of your life.
To be successful, you must overcome all the negativity that you have received over the last few decades. That is not easy.
Most people want to be successful, but so few are willing to pay the price. Once you identify your destination and begin your journey, you will encounter failures. If you pay the price, you would always pick up until you succeed. Some of us will do this for a while, some of us will be around for a while, but some of us will do it consistently until they succeed.
The winners of life try it long after the losers have given up. They never never give up.
That's what numbers are about.
As I unsubscribe from this article, I recall some of the famous quotes that have had a major impact on my life and helped me to overcome some of these negative qualities (and also turn that negative energy into positive energy) that I experienced during my journey had taken up from childhood to this age,
"Success will not belittle our standards, we have to make our standard a success."
"One who does not accept defeat from his heart, though he is not powerful, can never be defeated."
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